The person who attains Marifat in his Nafs develops a relationship of Love with Allah Almighty and His Ism o Siffaat. He is drowned in beauty and fragrance. This also results in loving relationships with all of Allah's creations. He recognises that Alam is Khadim to him and he is Makhdoom because he is Allah's Khalifa. And his aim is to continuously strive to please Allah and gain His Love, Qurb and Marifat. If any person achieves this, he has achieved his purpose.
Everything belongs in Allah so keep all your nisbat for Him. Focus on Allah and your relationship with Him. Prioritise Allah.
It is Allah who gives you a family, then gives you health to provide for them, then gives you talent to work and earn provisions for them. Without his Taufeeq and His Guidance and His Help, no one can attain anything. All success is because of Allah. All credit belongs to Allah. All success is hidden in Rasoolallah's (s) Love.
